Larry said something to me the other day that struck a nerve.

We were discussing a particular photo he took, and he wanted to know why I like his photos, why I think they turn out well. I said it was because he has a passion for his work; he said no, it was because of discipline. He also said, if I ever want to get good at photography, I’d better learn how to be disciplined.

I realized, after that conversation - I’m not really good at discipline. Oh sure there are somethings I’m very disciplined about, my work being one, but when it comes to my private life - not so much so!

And I started wondering - why is that?
well….
I work hard, everyday. When I come home I just want to pamper myself. Everyday.

But there’s a very slight difference between pampering yourself, and feeling sorry for yourself. Pamper parties quickly turn into pity parties. And I’ve been living a pity party.

So what’s the answer to pulling out of a pity party? Of actually achieving what you want to achieve? Of actually doing something with your life?

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